
Read This before you Quit
Let’s face it: we’ve all had that moment at work where we’re ready to throw in the towel. Maybe your boss micromanages every keystroke, or the coffee machine is always broken, and Karen in accounting just won’t stop chewing her gum so loudly. You’re not alone—according to Gallup, 50% of employees have quit a job to get away from their manager. But here’s the hard truth: quitting your job won’t magically solve your problems.
What you’re really searching for is a better quality of life. Spoiler alert: that doesn’t come with a resignation letter, but with intentional actions you can take every day. Let’s dive into some game-changing tips (with a dash of humor and a sprinkle of biblical wisdom) to help you thrive no matter where you work—or who chews gum in your office.
1. A Strong Faith Practice: The Ultimate Life Hack
Let’s start with the big one: faith. Psalm 37:4 reminds us, “Delight yourself in the Lord, and He will give you the desires of your heart.” That’s not just poetic—it’s practical. Building a strong faith practice through daily prayer and meditation can ground you in ways a new job can’t. It’s like installing a spiritual Wi-Fi router: you stay connected even when life’s signal feels weak.
2. Move Your Body, Change Your Mind
Did you know that regular exercise can reduce symptoms of depression and anxiety by up to 47%? Working out daily isn’t just for Instagram influencers—it’s a direct line to feeling better, thinking clearer, and handling Karen’s gum-chewing with a smile. Whether it’s a walk, yoga, or a dance party in your living room, get moving. Your body is a temple (1 Corinthians 6:19), so treat it like one!
3. Toxic Relationships: Time to Detox
Toxic relationships are like expired milk in the fridge—you know it’s bad for you, but you keep avoiding it. Start setting boundaries and managing these connections better. Proverbs 13:20 says, “Walk with the wise and become wise, for a companion of fools suffers harm.” Translation: stop wasting your energy on people who drain you. Invest in those who lift you up.
4. Daily Reflection: Host a Meeting with Yourself
When was the last time you sat down and asked yourself, What’s working? What’s not? If the answer is “never,” it’s time to schedule a one-on-one with…you! Reflecting regularly increases self-awareness and helps you course-correct. After all, even Jesus went off to pray alone and reflect (Luke 5:16). If it’s good enough for Him, it’s good enough for you.
5. Mindful Connections: Be Present
Mindfully engaging with your children, spouse, friends, and colleagues can dramatically increase your quality of life. Put down the phone, look them in the eye, and really listen. Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 reminds us that we’re stronger together, so invest in your relationships—they’re worth it.
6. Chase Goals, Not Just Paychecks
Here’s the deal: if you’re not leveling up in life, you’re going to feel like you’re dying inside. Goals that lead toward self-mastery are pivotal. Whether it’s learning a new skill, deepening your faith, or finally tackling that pile of laundry, progress keeps us alive. Proverbs 29:18 says, “Where there is no vision, the people perish.” Get a vision and go after it.
These steps are all part of my SAY YES Method, a framework designed to help you live consciously and thrive. If you’d like help implementing these strategies or tailoring them to your specific life, let’s schedule a discovery call. We’ll discuss what’s possible for you and how we can work together to create a life you love.
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And hey, you might still decide to quit your job—that’s okay. But before you do, try living consciously. You might just find that it’s not the job that needs to change—it’s the way you’re living. Let’s work together to make that transformation happen.
Stay empowered, Fam! Your unofficial coach, Xoxo @conscious_coach.shanique